Respect can mean different things to different people, but basically means to show regard or consideration for someone or something. It is critical for our children to understand the importance of respect, so that they can communicate effectively with others throughout their lives. It is important to distinguish between respect and obedience. A child may obey you simply because he is afraid of you. However, when a child understands that your rules and disciplinary actions are ultimately for his own good, he will obey you because he respects you.
The best way to teach your child about respect is for you to show respect to yourself, your child, and others. Kids are greatly influenced throughout their day by adults whether it be a parent, teacher, or coach. Observing respectful adult behavior helps your child learn the value of respect and how to use it to her advantage.
Keep in mind that school may teach children about respect, but it is you, the parent, that holds the most influence over your children. If you are caught bad-mouthing the opposing team during a soccer game or screaming an obscenity at the idiot who just cut you off, your child will take this as a cue that it's okay to be disrespectful to your peers.~~~~~~~~
The DSD Parent Center is located on the south side of the Reed Elementary School campus. Call coordinator Lori Hill at 870-382-1609 for more information.
